New to this forum, long time lurker but i feel i need to express myself and only you guys may understand.
Was in a 2 year relationship broke up 3 months ago, I didn't even know what BPD was until a colleague of mine mentioned it to me at work after i told him what happened and the crazy
PLEASE READ my ex put me through. I swear the idealization phase lasted around 3-4 months just as you guys discussed. I'd notice if I did something like dose off or wasnt feeling being in some club she'd bring me into, she would overthink and think im checking out other girls?
and huge arguments would come out of it and she'd go out and flirt with random guys to try and piss me off and bigger fights would start... Also is it normal for them to have dreams of you cheating on them and going berserk? Makes no sense her dreams were like once a day. I'd be at work and get a text out of the blues saying she saw me cheating on her and this would cause huge ass fights. I'm honestly just trying to make sense of all this, I put up with it for 2 years thinking she's just a bit crazy until i got discarded 3 months ago and i been snooping around these boards for answers.