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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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« Reply #30 on: August 27, 2020, 08:55:53 PM »

JNChell,  Virtual hug (click to insert in post)

I'm sorry you're going through this.
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« Reply #31 on: August 28, 2020, 10:14:24 AM »

For years during and after my divorce I would have days-long episode of runny sinuses.  Eventually I learned it wasn't a cold because only one sinus was draining, though sometimes as one dried up the other side would start.

I consulted a practitioner of EMDR or body balancing.  A lot is rooted from early childhood issues, but recently triggered.  For men, left side (most common for me) meant emotional problems from others, right side was my own emotional issues.

That's crazy, I've had the same exact thing going on with my left sinus.  It started about 4-5 years ago while still married, and has been slowly getting better over the last year.  I felt a constant light stinging in that sinus, and lots of discharge.  Almost gone now.  It's refreshing to read an explanation for it, I assumed it was related to stress somehow.

JNChell, sorry I didn't answer your question as I was away from the forum for awhile.  I live in the U.S. in a large metro area that leans left.  I hope things get better for you and your son, just take it one day at a time.
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« Reply #32 on: September 03, 2020, 10:48:21 PM »

I8kgrl. Thank you. I think it’s all good. Just going to cost some money. My Son is priceless, though. We’ll see what Mom thinks.
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