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Author Topic: Going through a breakup with a BPD and it is quickly taking a nasty turn  (Read 220 times)
Lainie
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: going through a breakup that has turned nasty
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« on: August 27, 2020, 09:51:35 AM »

Good morning!  My fiancee and I broke up 8/19/2019 and I gave him a year (yes, I am too soft hearted) to move his things out because he has always been down on his luck.  He was thinking all along that I would just "get over" the events and the fight that caused him to move out.  He has nowhere else to go except to move in with his mother and put his things in storage.  As of Monday he realized I was not just going to let him move back in and act like nothing happened and he became nasty and vindictive.  I just found out today that now mutual friends of his are no longer responding to me on social media.  Looks like I have been shunned in his circle of friends.  Clearly I am being punished, and he is also clearly dragging his feet regarding moving his things from my home.  I feel so sad and so frightened. 
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« Reply #1 on: August 28, 2020, 10:12:57 AM »

Hey Laine,

Sorry to hear about all that! Welcome.
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