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Author Topic: has anyone had a narcistic parent plan murder  (Read 386 times)
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« on: August 30, 2020, 11:26:00 AM »

I did not realize at the time my father was a narcissist until another family member heard my story from me and said he sounds like a narcissist.This realization happened 3 days after my Mom died and he was elated. He fit every category that describes a narcissist then a friend(counselor) bought me 4 books on narcissism and I realized the last stage is "discard", and that is what happened to my Mom. recently I also found out he is a Pedi file, this was after my Mom's death. Has anyone ever had someone intentionally kill someone as "discarding"?
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« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2020, 09:54:38 PM »

What leads you to believe that your father murdered your mother? How did you find out that he's a pedophile? Those must be shocking revelations.
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« Reply #2 on: September 13, 2020, 05:10:04 PM »

I did not realize at the time my father was a narcissist until another family member heard my story from me and said he sounds like a narcissist.This realization happened 3 days after my Mom died and he was elated. He fit every category that describes a narcissist then a friend(counselor) bought me 4 books on narcissism and I realized the last stage is "discard", and that is what happened to my Mom. recently I also found out he is a Pedi file, this was after my Mom's death. Has anyone ever had someone intentionally kill someone as "discarding"?
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« Reply #3 on: September 13, 2020, 11:20:54 PM »



You quoted your original post. Hit Reply and you can tell us more so we can better support you, TW.
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« Reply #4 on: September 15, 2020, 06:39:04 PM »

What leads you to believe that your father murdered your mother? How did you find out that he's a pedophile? Those must be shocking revelations.

over a period of years he systematically increased her stress level knowing it was causing seizures, and blood pressure issues. She was straight out of surgery for her heart two years ago and he threw one of his fits in the hospital, now I realize he was trying to kill her then. So many examples, too many to share. The day she died her cardiologist and neurologist heard the threats he had been making and said she needed to be removed from the situation. Again too many responses to type.
I found out two days before my birthday in June that he had started sexually molesting my adopted brother that we adopted at age 11 when we got him. My father is an ordained minister, elder in the church and well know in our state and has condemned people to hell because they didn't attend church three times a week, all while he is molesting a child. The Holy Spirit also brings things to my attention and he approached at least three other men for sex while i was a teenager, i am sixty six now.  Have you had a similar experience? 
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« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2020, 12:12:30 AM »

That's very disturbing on multiple levels...

I was an only child though my mother's father was abusive to all the kids and raped his two daughters for many years. 

You mentioned that you're 60. How long ago did your mother pass, and what kind of contact do you have with your father?
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