Emotional Incest Treatment

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Hi,

This is weird to write, I reckon this is the first time I'm really saying the words.
I believe I am a victim of emotional incest.
I initially started wondering due to a period in my life where substance abuse and porn brought me to find hidden parts of my psychie that I never faced. After a few months of denial, I started thinking. And remembering.
I didn't think too much of it due to my lowkey denial, until a few years later in therapy. I got into a form of rehab therapy and discovered how much my childhood wasn't right, and how much it affected who I was.
I've looked online, but couldn't find any material on it. I was quite young when it happened, and most of the material is on surrogate spouse syndrome in married adults etc.

I was in a relationship recently that ended due to patterns of behavior, personality traits, and wounds and scars I now know the source of.

The brief relationship began unraveling what is like a tangled up ball of yarn in my soul.

Does anyone know of anywhere I can read up on this more?

Thank you

[Yaakov]

Hi,

This is weird to write, I reckon this is the first time I'm really saying the words.
I believe I am a victim of emotional incest.
I initially started wondering due to a period in my life where substance abuse and porn brought me to find hidden parts of my psychie that I never faced. After a few months of denial, I started thinking. And remembering.
I didn't think too much of it due to my lowkey denial, until a few years later in therapy. I got into a form of rehab therapy and discovered how much my childhood wasn't right, and how much it affected who I was.
I've looked online, but couldn't find any material on it. I was quite young when it happened, and most of the material is on surrogate spouse syndrome in married adults etc.

I was in a relationship recently that ended due to patterns of behavior, personality traits, and wounds and scars I now know the source of.

The brief relationship began unraveling what is like a tangled up ball of yarn in my soul.

Does anyone know of anywhere I can read up on this more?

Thank you