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[Depression = 72% of members]

Sorry for the link.

I know I poked the bear by mentioning something she said. But she was making me apologize for all the fights we've had. I apologize for my part in everything. Then I get silence.



https://ibb.co/album/W0NJZn

[Perthman]

Sorry for the link.

I know I poked the bear by mentioning something she said. But she was making me apologize for all the fights we've had. I apologize for my part in everything. Then I get silence.



https://ibb.co/album/W0NJZn

[once removed]

hi Perthman, and

relationships sadly end because these things cant be resolved.

one of the hardest parts is that once a breakup happens, there is no resolving them with the other person; the breakup is the resolution.

how are you holding up? has anything happened since?

[EZEarache]

Wow Perthman,

I haven't had the opportunity to read any text exchanges in their original format in the six months I've been frequenting this board. However, I find reading this exchange strangely familiar. The candence of the exchange is almost identical to the ones directed at me. Dropping my name when she's especially pissed at me. I can actually hear the inflection as if it was being screamed at me in person. I'm getting stressed out just reading it.

I'm sorry you have had to experience this. I'm sure you are hurting in a way I can't image right now. Please be strong, and try to learn to accept that it's not you it's them.

Welcome to the club... and I'm sorry you had to join.