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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: December 28, 2021, 11:32:19 AM »

From https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/bpd-pas-veronique-gengler/:

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May I propose a hypothesis that children facing PAS will meet the criteria of BPD

Did your child undergo significant PA and did that result in BPD traits?
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« Reply #1 on: December 28, 2021, 02:25:31 PM »

From https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/bpd-pas-veronique-gengler/:

Did your child undergo significant PA and did that result in BPD traits?
No, not at all.
My daughter was an amazing, happy, well-adjusted child with a good home life, if I do say so myself (and she will say the same). Her BPD developed in teen-hood after major bullying (ages 13-15) and an emotionally/mentally abusive relationship (age 15/16). I know the powers that be claim BPD develops because of childhood trauma, but those early teen years are extremely formative as well.
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« Reply #2 on: December 28, 2021, 06:29:47 PM »

I am truly sorry to hear that, ILMBPC. I feel your pain.
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« Reply #3 on: December 28, 2021, 06:35:30 PM »

I am truly sorry to hear that, ILMBPC. I feel your pain.
Thank you. We feel lucky that we caught it early and got her into therapy right away. She's 23 now and while not "cured" she has the skills and support to manage very well
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« Reply #4 on: December 28, 2021, 10:07:11 PM »

Thank you. We feel lucky that we caught it early and got her into therapy right away. She's 23 now and while not "cured" she has the skills and support to manage very well

She's so fortunate that you were so proactive, rather than burying your head in the sand, as many parents of kids with BPD traits do.
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