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Question: What is the total score for your answers?
76-88 /Extreme depression - 75 (6.4%)
51-75 /Severe depression - 281 (24.1%)
26-50 /Moderate depression - 438 (37.6%)
11-25 /Mild depression - 209 (18%)
6-10 /Unhappy (no dep) - 89 (7.6%)
0-5 /No depression - 72 (6.2%)
Total Voters: 1151

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smd74
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« Reply #600 on: May 10, 2021, 10:22:33 PM »

77 what now
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Fiances
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« Reply #601 on: June 19, 2021, 12:03:49 AM »

I just stopped counting at 76. I’m really tired.
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« Reply #602 on: August 14, 2021, 12:47:00 AM »

I scored a 71. This is so shocking because it makes me more clearly see how bad my relationship is and how lost I feel.
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« Reply #603 on: December 21, 2021, 03:31:13 AM »

I scored 42--= moderately depressed.  It's relieving to know that yeah...that's where I'm at.  I find I can accept where I'm at if I can put a word to it.  And there are so many emotions flowing around, I thought I'd come to this forum again.

I'm at this score because I've just finalised the property settlement with my xBPDw.  The divorce happened back earlier this year, so this property settlement is the last really big thing.  The last boundary.  I'm out and can move forward.  And I think all the pent up grief, regret, and relief is pouring out...all mixed up.
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Married
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« Reply #604 on: December 29, 2021, 09:18:15 AM »

I scored a 30, meaning moderately depressed.  I feel like my ADHD, anxiety and dealing with a uBPDw contributed to this moderate score (due to the FOG), more so than actual depression.  Nonetheless it's great to be aware of.   
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« Reply #605 on: May 29, 2022, 02:27:30 PM »

Scored a 49 in January and a 24 in May.  Counseling and realizing my wife of 25 years is uBPD has helped A LOT.  Owning that the constant onslaught of emotional abuse created my own self inflicted codependent depressive thinking and working my way out of it with a lot of self evaluation and reflection has helped!  Putting a BPD name to the BS has been a God Send! 
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« Reply #606 on: June 02, 2022, 01:11:47 PM »

Putting a BPD name to the BS has been a God Send! 

This was so true for me as well with my uPBDw.  The minute I realized the cause of the chaos I could definitely look at our relationship differently and make the changes necessary. 
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