Been a while since I posted here

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I have stayed with my BPD husband since I went through therapy and questioning here.  He ruined my 50th birthday last night and today.  Why?  Because he is upset that his ex-wife is taking him to court for more child support after she has had two babies with the guy she cheated on him with and they are all on Medicaid and foodstamps. 

I feel he is reckless and he scared the crap out me last night by driving too fast on the interstate and tailgating - at times in excess of 100 mph. Then tonight he put his hands around my neck and forced me to down to yell in my face.  No choking and no marks but huge intimidation tactics.

I have learned a lot about boundaries and these are huge violations of my boundaries and I was in fear of my life.  Today is my birthday and I know for a fact that I don't want to live this way any longer.

Thoughts?

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Yes, it is time to make a change.  I cannot live in fear and should not have to live in fear.