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Aussie JJ
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« on: July 07, 2015, 01:17:11 PM »

Hi all,

Long time no post however the 4th of July was my one year LC anniversary.  Nothing much changed apart from in court. 

I have to say just not having any contact with her is awesome, I communicate about our son and that's it.  It is virtually NC because of her failure to communicate in any constructive manner.  Even then its pointless.  I'm tending the less is more here.  It's great. 

For those who don't know me, LC was initially one of the HARDEST things I have ever done for so many reasons.  However a year on I look back and have a bit of a laugh over what I went through.  I felt the worst I ever did going through that initially.  Mutt and a few others will remember however home free now!

Its far from over however it is far better than initially.


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« Reply #1 on: July 07, 2015, 01:42:38 PM »

Hi AussieJJ  

I'm happy to hear that things have improved. I bet that was tough a year ago  Smiling (click to insert in post) It's good to hear you have a sense of humor about it.

How are you and your son?
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« Reply #2 on: July 07, 2015, 10:52:12 PM »

I am great and most importantly he is great. 

I can see the PA ramping up to a level I hadn't imagined possible with the legal stuff kicking into gear and her running out of ways to hide. 

I mad more changes to my life to basically have more time to see him just her obstructing it now.  It will sort itself out, just give it time. 


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« Reply #3 on: July 08, 2015, 10:25:28 PM »

Hey AJJ,

Great to hear that you and your son are doing well. I like your "things will sort itsself out" attitude. You have come a long way bro. From what you write it looks like you have a peace now about a lot of things. Finding humor in any of what we went through is also nice. I remember some cartoon type moments now that are funny looking back at it all.

Keep us updated,

AO

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