Use it as a fuel

[faithfull]

I spent 3 days in this site past year reading posts. It has been nearly 1.5 since i started NC.

Just wanted to let you know there is a light at the end of the road.

Last year, i was a grieving/sad/angry international student who was studying at the not very much famous university.

My strategy was to use those bad energy and turn it to something positive\meaningful.

Now, I am happy/fulfilled/social international student who studies at ranked#20 university near the Capital. I relocated because of triggers... .  

Now, I am enjoying ever minute of my life. I have passed the acceptance, and actually i am thankful to her that she made me and who am i today. More aware, more self-respectful, and more opposite of what "SHE IS"(liar,cheater, no empathy... .  )

Improvement in your life makes grieving process much easier... .  And one day you will be thankful to your BPD... .  Good luck to you all.

[fakename]

Great post and so true

[Surnia]

Thanks for sharing it, faithful

and great you found through! 

Now, I am happy/fulfilled/social international student who studies at ranked#20 university near the Capital. I relocated because of triggers... .