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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« Reply #30 on: June 06, 2016, 09:37:31 PM »

I appreciate it, I really do. I had brought it up in therapy again today. It felt good to finally stand up for myself and let it all out. On the other hand I told my T, I went off on a mentally ill person, I'm not proud of that. Because of this I am continuing to look deeper to figure out all the why's and how's.

Try not to be too hard on yourself. Your anger is justifiable and it's easy to overlook their mental illness because it's not on the service. Their illness is much more subtle than something like schizophrenia, pika, etc.
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« Reply #31 on: June 06, 2016, 09:39:34 PM »

Thank you, I'm working on that. For me it's easier said then done... .something my T is trying to work on
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« Reply #32 on: June 06, 2016, 09:56:09 PM »

Thank you, I'm working on that. For me it's easier said then done... .something my T is trying to work on

It's much easier said than done. I have to work on it, too. I keep replaying what happened during our blowup and wondering if I had something differently if I wouldn't have been discarded. I understand what you're going through.
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