Hello LnL,
thank you for the respond.
Yes! Thats what i mean.
I read most of the articles inside this site and its an amazing job they have done!Everything is understandable and clear and very very educating!
It makes it easier for us newbies,to understand the behaviors and to go one step beyond.
Still confused but learning...
So to the point...
Is it better for me to continue posting caring and understanding posts or should i delete him as a friend and hope that he ll be ok soon?(... i am hurting even thinking about it... cant imagine his pain)
I already reassured him that,i am dont attend to try see him from close again anymore,cause i believe that scared him the most.He has seen the results of a real-life relationship and doesnt want to try again(Even though he posted this one day "There are some beautiful disasters i would really want to live again" )
I've already read that, its better either for me and him to move on but i am still asking beacause of the long distance particularity of this relationship.
I believe that,this different kind of relationship we have is a relief for him,is a window to the world.
I can now see that he wants to keep his loneliness but he doesnt want to be alone,and since nobody but me can "feel" him through his posts,he would like me there as an eternal long distance partner...