when do the expenses stop

[jasonb]

I have left my ex BPD/npd/hpd. It has been over a month and the expenses never seem to end.No, it wasn't enough that she drained my bank account during our relationship (part my fault I was too nice), It wasn't enough that I paid off her debts, school loans, etc. now even in break up it is costing money and my net worth has dropped substantially.

-I changed the locks on the house

-when she left she took a lot of stuff that was not rightfully hers. I have notified my attorney

-I had to get a property attorney on retainer to evict her. she would not for the life of her leave my house

-I had to get a divorce attorney on retainer because she threatened me with common law marriage even though we do not meet any of the requirements. I still had to protect myself

-I had to replace a lot of stuff that was taken that was not hers

-she refuses to give back the engagement ring. worth about 5,000 dollars. once again notified attorney

this is getting very frustrating. The breakup was enough stress,just getting her out took an act of god, but the financial devastation is really getting to me. why do they do this? I can only pray that karma rolls around her way and she finds a BPD fiancee who takes her to the cleaners.