That she didnt know how to let me love her or anybody else for that matter.
She cried and said she did love me and that I had treated her better then anyone else she had ever had.
NO discussion of getting back togther on my part or hers. But Im really floored by all this. I really dont know what to make of all this.
Mitchell, I quoted the things I believe are more important.
The first quote, makes me think she does not have an idea of what love is about. I guess we all agree that it is not a matter of letting somebody love you. So it appears that for her love is about HER letting people to have feelings... . like a form of control that she needs over other people feelings.
The second quote, is somewhat on the same lines... . she say she loves you and relates it to how you treated her. No words on how she would like to treat you in the future, or how she would have done things differently. In other words it seems she is mostly concerned about what she can receive rather than what she can give.
The third quote instead is mostly about you. The fact that no word has been said about getting back is not totally relevant. What is relevant is that you thought about it. And if I understand you correctly, inside of you, you would be open to such outcome even if you did not say a word about it.
And this is what I would recommend to think about.
Would you go back with her if she indeed shows a consistent pattern and effort to take her responsibilities and to do her work?
Are you sure that the pain you had to suffer in the past would not affect the r/s?
Do you think you can trust her again, fully?
Is this for you a closure or a possible opening?