Hi Wgirl,
We welcome you to this site with love and understanding!
I don't have much I can say right now - I just excused myself from our visiting neighbors/friends because I wanted to reach out so I can't be long. Having said that I would love to converse with you more.
I too was SO thankful to find this site last year.
Please take advantage of everything offered here. I credit this and the books that I have read for helping me so much with my son.
I just received a text from him that said something to the effect of "thanks, and I do feel like the knot in my stomach is 99% loosened up from where it was".
Without BPDfamily and all of the great information in the library plus the other parents posting here I would not have the where-with-all to communicate properly with my son.
I am glad you found us, sorry for what brought you here.
More members will chime in soon.
Hugs
R