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« Reply #60 on: March 01, 2013, 10:02:42 PM »

Someone listened tonight.  Even though the police have grown more angry each time I try to file a police report I decided tonight I would tke my chances and call one more time. I was surpised to see two cars and three police officers in my drive. The luitenant even came this time. They actually took a missing person report and seemed genuinely worried too. Once particular officer has really show empathy and he was 9on duty tonight. I pray they can find her  
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
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« Reply #61 on: March 01, 2013, 10:11:30 PM »

Dear struggling mom,  thank god someone has heard your voice .  We all pray for you and remember you have done everything you can.  I pray for your daughter and you.  Take solice and knowing people are there for you.   If only we lived next door we could really help you
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« Reply #62 on: March 02, 2013, 12:58:12 PM »

Dear Strugglingmom

I hope you have had some word on your DD.  

May the Good Lord watch over you both.   Thinking of you and praying for her safe return.

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« Reply #63 on: March 02, 2013, 11:42:19 PM »

Not a single word no activity on her facebook nothing
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« Reply #64 on: March 03, 2013, 12:03:44 AM »

Struggling mom.

You are doing so much and trying so hard it really is miraculous.

You are such an incredible woman.

Please remember to take care of yourself. Your son needs you to do that and everyone on these boards hopes for you to do that.

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« Reply #65 on: March 03, 2013, 12:43:11 AM »

struggling

My ds29 has disappeared many times... .  and he was 1500 miles away so I get the terror you are feeling.

I also have another nonBPDds28 who got "ignored" every time there was a catastrophe or crisis with my ds.

I really did not realize at the time how much my nonds was being affected by this.

I know you are terrified about your dd but your ds needs to know that he doesn't take a back seat to dd.

We don't mean to do it but the squeaky wheel gets all the attention. 

It's so hard to address both our kids needs (which are so different).

I don't usually pray... .  but I will pray for you and your dd and ds. 

I know you are scared.

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« Reply #66 on: March 03, 2013, 09:35:36 AM »

Be gentle to yourself for doing all you have done

Be kind to your son.

My prayers are with you
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« Reply #67 on: March 04, 2013, 04:38:02 PM »

It has been a long time ago when my dd would not communciate with us.  At the time cell phones were not really being used ( Oh my I sound OLD )  But it was so hard as I had no idea how or where to find her.  Now I know where to find my dd but she won't answer her phone or message me which makes it very difficult as well.

The time just seems to be so long and everything else just doesn't matter.  Know you are in my thoughts.  I will keep a watchful eye on your posts. 

 
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« Reply #68 on: March 04, 2013, 04:43:59 PM »

Strugglingmom

We are worried about you... .  are you ok?
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« Reply #69 on: March 04, 2013, 05:50:11 PM »

Has anyone heard from struggling mom very worried hope she is ok and well
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