So, I just wanted to vent about it and see if anybody else's s/o responds immaturely to requests for things around the house.
Venting is good... .we all need a place to let off some steam. BPD family is a good place to do that.
However... .the real value in this place is to learn from others so that your r/s improves.
What would it mean to you if she stopped moving out... .that she cleaned up... . ?
I think that is possible... .we'll need to know some more about your r/s (relationship) first.
We're ready to listen... .!