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SUCCESS STORIES « 1 2 ... 10 11 » John Galt 103 75515 Last post January 09, 2017, 07:48:06 AM
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I am not sure what to do? Broken? Given up? Lost? Triedmybest408 2 22 Last post June 23, 2017, 10:49:15 AM
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Accused of being selfish.... advice needed. Zoaron 4 58 Last post June 23, 2017, 09:08:17 AM
by isilme
How do I communicate more effectively with BPD partner without escalation Cerise 2 28 Last post June 23, 2017, 07:54:45 AM
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Tired of my BPD wife « 1 2 3 4  All » IWantToLive 31 1248 Last post June 23, 2017, 07:21:01 AM
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Advice Gumiho 1 23 Last post June 23, 2017, 03:38:05 AM
by Gumiho
New Here - Going thru the beginning... Cinder2017 0 14 Last post June 22, 2017, 09:03:35 PM
by Cinder2017
What triggers BDPspouse? Also tools to pacify? Chambers 3 67 Last post June 22, 2017, 08:25:48 PM
by Wutnow32
Overwhelmed DRH12345 1 18 Last post June 22, 2017, 05:46:41 PM
by DRH12345
Rebuilding relationships eggfry 3 38 Last post June 22, 2017, 05:23:45 PM
by Mustbeabetterway
Attacking a friend Tattered Heart 4 67 Last post June 22, 2017, 05:12:30 PM
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Mixed emotions. Shedd 3 68 Last post June 22, 2017, 01:36:47 PM
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impending visit, tell her or not ? Henry II 1 41 Last post June 22, 2017, 08:46:21 AM
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Dealing with a great lot of emotional pain FoxC 1 26 Last post June 22, 2017, 08:36:42 AM
by Tattered Heart
Spouse looking for direction. colbalt27 2 35 Last post June 22, 2017, 08:26:17 AM
by Tattered Heart
violence completelylost 5 99 Last post June 22, 2017, 07:44:14 AM
by MrRight
We are Strong Tattered Heart 5 56 Last post June 22, 2017, 07:40:17 AM
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GAD sufferer dealing with newly diagnosed BPD « 1 2  All » lostgirljk 12 214 Last post June 22, 2017, 03:02:34 AM
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BPD and going off grid, unreliability willow89 4 96 Last post June 21, 2017, 03:55:50 PM
by isilme
Where do I go from here? Motorman 2 100 Last post June 21, 2017, 03:11:34 PM
by Motorman
Confused, worried, head-over-heels CornerSign 2 30 Last post June 21, 2017, 02:42:40 PM
by Seenowayout
Hello everyone Ander1987 2 44 Last post June 20, 2017, 09:26:23 PM
by Ander1987
Parenting rant Alayne 7 119 Last post June 20, 2017, 04:40:51 PM
by Alayne
Matters of the heart Wishfulstar 1 44 Last post June 20, 2017, 01:00:46 PM
by Tattered Heart
BBQ Woes Tattered Heart 9 196 Last post June 20, 2017, 08:16:12 AM
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hi Lichen 1 21 Last post June 20, 2017, 08:11:12 AM
by Tattered Heart
Dealing exs or friends Kcroyal 1 33 Last post June 20, 2017, 07:39:53 AM
by BeagleGirl
Introduction toomanydogs 2 54 Last post June 19, 2017, 07:14:36 PM
by toomanydogs
My Introduction Summer Skye 2 71 Last post June 19, 2017, 07:10:57 PM
by Summer Skye
Difference between feeling and thinking? Hulu 5 100 Last post June 19, 2017, 02:06:06 PM
by isilme
Making "progress" halcyon 5 107 Last post June 19, 2017, 01:46:01 PM
by isilme
I think he has BPD 6rock 1 42 Last post June 19, 2017, 01:38:14 PM
by Mutt
Help/Feeling Lost as a Caregiver LostMoonlight 1 27 Last post June 19, 2017, 11:32:40 AM
by isilme
Current challenges Plutonian 4 86 Last post June 19, 2017, 11:17:46 AM
by Plutonian
How to explain to the kids when your spouse is raging joshbjoshb 2 53 Last post June 19, 2017, 07:20:39 AM
by sweetheart
Heartbroken and feeling so exhausted « 1 2  All » Chambers 19 283 Last post June 18, 2017, 05:27:42 PM
by Chambers
My wife had BPD and we have a 10 year old daughter JO-JO 2 50 Last post June 18, 2017, 10:37:27 AM
by MrRight
What to do next BPDVASpouse 2 48 Last post June 18, 2017, 02:37:35 AM
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BPD Spouse- At an Impass TreeMan47 1 53 Last post June 17, 2017, 08:53:31 PM
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Spouse with BPD re-entering therapy feeling exhausted palynne 1 29 Last post June 17, 2017, 07:21:34 PM
by BeagleGirl
My wife seems to get worse the harder I try « 1 2  All » MelsRage 14 231 Last post June 17, 2017, 03:49:44 AM
by waverider
Introduction Plutonian 2 34 Last post June 16, 2017, 06:35:06 PM
by Plutonian
Push pull and boundaries Zoaron 2 57 Last post June 16, 2017, 05:51:58 PM
by Zoaron
Do you talk to anyone about your SO's BPD? « 1 2  All » Alayne 10 228 Last post June 16, 2017, 02:28:32 PM
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the future xenon123 2 49 Last post June 16, 2017, 08:17:24 AM
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Suspected high functioning BPD wife - examples, is it BPD and how to cope Zenpadwan 4 91 Last post June 16, 2017, 08:16:06 AM
by joshbjoshb
Need More Information MadMax8701 1 30 Last post June 16, 2017, 06:21:18 AM
by JoeBPD81
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