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SUCCESS STORIES « 1 2 ... 10 11 » John Galt 103 72948 Last post January 09, 2017, 07:48:06 AM
by Artemis_bpd
WHO SHOULD POST ON THIS BOARD? BPDFamily 6 73079 Last post May 13, 2011, 06:49:17 AM
by Steph
LESSONS BPDFamily 7 140061 Last post May 10, 2011, 06:26:33 PM
by BPDFamily
Need help getting along with my BP wife Coachers 1 9 Last post February 20, 2017, 06:48:06 AM
by heartandwhole
She shares too much online and I don't know how to handle it Hlinthewiking 6 73 Last post February 20, 2017, 06:12:03 AM
by Notwendy
Im ready to learn the tools V « 1 2 3  All » Oncebitten 29 289 Last post February 20, 2017, 12:22:35 AM
by Grey Kitty
Do I walk away? AT1 2 50 Last post February 19, 2017, 08:54:27 PM
by joeramabeme
My Boyfriend Has BPD And Has Stopped All Communication With Everyone AndaPanda 0 35 Last post February 19, 2017, 08:57:54 AM
by AndaPanda
I lost it and am disappointed in myself and frustrated WitzEndWife 9 93 Last post February 19, 2017, 04:22:37 AM
by waverider
How do you know? « 1 2  All » flannel 12 119 Last post February 18, 2017, 11:09:22 PM
by Healthy88
BPD wife moving focus from me to daughters Aurylian 4 83 Last post February 18, 2017, 04:13:55 PM
by Notwendy
A lightbulb moment Without-Jumper 1 42 Last post February 18, 2017, 02:02:02 PM
by Mutt
What are you BP's triggers?? WifeInOz 2 48 Last post February 17, 2017, 09:28:26 PM
by WifeInOz
Valentines Day Dilemma « 1 2  All » RDMercer55 12 197 Last post February 17, 2017, 09:12:33 PM
by Healthy88
My husband and 27 yo son are fighting « 1 2  All » Crumbling 13 182 Last post February 17, 2017, 07:16:14 PM
by Crumbling
Does mess trigger your BPD person? WifeInOz 1 32 Last post February 17, 2017, 05:07:16 PM
by Jessica84
Suggestions on How To Maintain My Composure? « 1 2  All » Healthy88 15 184 Last post February 17, 2017, 04:26:37 PM
by Healthy88
Wise or Unwise To Discuss Their BPD with their family? Healthy88 7 73 Last post February 17, 2017, 02:39:16 PM
by Healthy88
Anyone Friends First with SO? Healthy88 7 73 Last post February 17, 2017, 11:36:19 AM
by complicated
Got a bowl of pasta thrown at me tonight! Fun! WifeInOz 5 67 Last post February 17, 2017, 09:38:16 AM
by isilme
Newby.... Baby Bug 4 40 Last post February 17, 2017, 08:43:49 AM
by Tattered Heart
BPD Ex Success Stories? eleven_11 2 64 Last post February 16, 2017, 11:56:40 PM
by eleven_11
Hello! Kevalis 3 46 Last post February 16, 2017, 11:08:20 PM
by Naughty Nibbler
BPD symptom? DH talks uncontrollably in cartoon voices « 1 2  All » OddWalnut 10 150 Last post February 16, 2017, 07:47:11 PM
by OddWalnut
How to approach? Butterfly29 2 38 Last post February 16, 2017, 07:03:54 PM
by Aurylian
For those whose BPD spouses got into therapy: How did it happen? WitzEndWife 7 80 Last post February 16, 2017, 06:40:06 PM
by Aurylian
Hugely positive step Echo87 2 48 Last post February 16, 2017, 10:31:25 AM
by Jessica84
Does BPD usually lesson or intensify as one ages? Healthy88 9 180 Last post February 16, 2017, 09:58:21 AM
by Jessica84
At my wits end Balance 2 52 Last post February 16, 2017, 12:08:03 AM
by ArleighBurke
Therapist and other marital frustrations « 1 2 3  All » Non-bpd husband 25 270 Last post February 15, 2017, 09:34:40 PM
by Healthy88
He opened up to me completely and it's a really hard pill to swallow. misuniadziubek 5 161 Last post February 15, 2017, 09:01:56 PM
by Grey Kitty
Creating a "Self-care Kit" OnceHadMoxie 3 39 Last post February 15, 2017, 05:18:10 PM
by peacemountain
Power struggles and more WitzEndWife 4 54 Last post February 15, 2017, 03:45:12 PM
by Tattered Heart
my husband/meltdowns at dinner shinara 4 91 Last post February 15, 2017, 03:40:05 PM
by Tattered Heart
I need a break Tattered Heart 7 84 Last post February 15, 2017, 03:29:06 PM
by Tattered Heart
For non-BPDs with a BPD partner: Real love and what's in it for you? « 1 2  All » WitzEndWife 19 403 Last post February 15, 2017, 11:09:18 AM
by WitzEndWife
I'm ready to learn the tools - IV « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » Oncebitten 51 328 Last post February 15, 2017, 08:36:28 AM
by heartandwhole
Professor Dr Otto Kernberg et al have a cure for B.P.D.! It is called T.F.P.! happilyJ 0 68 Last post February 15, 2017, 07:50:43 AM
by happilyJ
Exhausted LovedNana 2 60 Last post February 15, 2017, 12:16:22 AM
by waverider
Introduction brownbird 2 36 Last post February 14, 2017, 03:32:06 PM
by livednlearned
What the heck is wrong with me!?! « 1 2  All » Swhitey 14 190 Last post February 14, 2017, 10:44:04 AM
by Meili
How do you communicate when you need support from someone who has BPD? vibratinghigher 4 95 Last post February 14, 2017, 10:12:12 AM
by Duped 1
Happy Vday!! md83 2 54 Last post February 14, 2017, 09:45:12 AM
by isilme
What can I do? ArianaDumbledore 1 34 Last post February 14, 2017, 08:15:05 AM
by Tattered Heart
Advice for a man who has feelings for a woman with BPD. « 1 2 3  All » BPDSponge 24 478 Last post February 14, 2017, 12:07:56 AM
by SuperJew82
Journey momandspouse 1 34 Last post February 13, 2017, 05:21:38 PM
by Mutt
Needing Support to Stop Enabling Cruisin24 3 51 Last post February 13, 2017, 04:17:44 PM
by waverider
Intro vibratinghigher 2 31 Last post February 13, 2017, 09:46:51 AM
by takingandsending
Reality has struck 2Endure 1 61 Last post February 12, 2017, 08:26:49 PM
by Mutt
Please Help. Don't know what to do. lajb000 3 90 Last post February 12, 2017, 03:37:19 AM
by Jessica84
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