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Loving a BPD Spouse or Significant Other,
What Does it Take to Be in a Relationship
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Codependency and Codependent Relationships
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SUCCESS STORIES « 1 2 ... 10 11 » John Galt 103 74687 Last post January 09, 2017, 07:48:06 AM
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WHO SHOULD POST ON THIS BOARD? BPDFamily 6 73725 Last post May 13, 2011, 06:49:17 AM
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LESSONS BPDFamily 7 141793 Last post May 10, 2011, 06:26:33 PM
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I broke up with BPD gf to work on ourselves stamusic 1 9 Last post May 23, 2017, 07:31:03 AM
by JoeBPD81
Are You a Spouse or a Therapist? Cole 6 123 Last post May 23, 2017, 05:20:44 AM
by Cole
Leaving Therapy daverisk 0 10 Last post May 23, 2017, 04:11:20 AM
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Wife with bod Bubba80 1 25 Last post May 23, 2017, 01:26:08 AM
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Does she have BDP? Could explain things Thenator 0 12 Last post May 22, 2017, 11:04:56 PM
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Dealing with my own resentment Yellowbee 1 51 Last post May 22, 2017, 08:20:14 PM
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My recent 'ah-ha' moment Wutnow32 2 51 Last post May 22, 2017, 06:36:17 PM
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He likes to spend money Ythisroad 3 86 Last post May 22, 2017, 01:20:58 PM
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Picking a fight Caboose 1 29 Last post May 22, 2017, 12:53:00 PM
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My weekend in PD Land onelittleladybug 0 24 Last post May 22, 2017, 10:53:54 AM
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Comfort eating/asking for things/coping mechanisms Beren2016 0 19 Last post May 22, 2017, 09:26:10 AM
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Introduction Beloved Warrior 1 33 Last post May 22, 2017, 07:10:35 AM
by JoeBPD81
Partner traumatised by the fact I have had previous relationships « 1 2  All » Kirkwood22 10 123 Last post May 22, 2017, 06:20:03 AM
by Notwendy
Saving my great-grandchild from his BPD mom. Need Family Legal Advice DDSRN 1 34 Last post May 22, 2017, 03:28:24 AM
by JoeBPD81
First post Lakebreeze 1 21 Last post May 22, 2017, 02:44:20 AM
by JoeBPD81
1.13 | How to deal with an angry partner « 1 2  All » DaddyBear77 12 424 Last post May 21, 2017, 10:36:43 PM
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Married to BP for 33 Years and I Am Feeling Helpless and Alone Serenity62 2 56 Last post May 21, 2017, 08:00:21 PM
by Yellowbee
BPD Relationship VigilantHylian 1 30 Last post May 21, 2017, 09:24:11 AM
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Introduction Alayne 1 18 Last post May 21, 2017, 09:03:47 AM
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The "Human Being" Defense « 1 2  All » Violettine 19 257 Last post May 20, 2017, 10:14:23 AM
by Grey Kitty
Romantic gestures when she starts pulling away - good or bad idea? stamusic 0 30 Last post May 20, 2017, 06:43:13 AM
by stamusic
my girlfriend kentbuckman 1 28 Last post May 19, 2017, 10:59:58 PM
by kentbuckman
Need guidance TavrenCallas 0 20 Last post May 19, 2017, 05:22:10 PM
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First timer jmacc 0 16 Last post May 19, 2017, 05:16:08 PM
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Another day, another problem? wanttobehappy 2 61 Last post May 19, 2017, 03:40:26 PM
by wanttobehappy
Please help Mickyt84 4 87 Last post May 18, 2017, 10:09:45 PM
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My BPD friend Kalle 0 6 Last post May 18, 2017, 05:22:06 PM
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To BPD's - what goes through your mind when you pull away/painting black? stamusic 6 169 Last post May 18, 2017, 04:15:18 PM
by stamusic
first relationship with someone with BPD... any advice?? tangomurete 9 159 Last post May 18, 2017, 04:05:48 PM
by tangomurete
He Never Feels "Listened To" Mitochandrea 1 36 Last post May 18, 2017, 03:42:17 PM
by isilme
Living with a BPD Wife topstoh 1 69 Last post May 18, 2017, 02:34:30 PM
by Ythisroad
why does he feel the need to criticize? forret 4 67 Last post May 18, 2017, 11:24:04 AM
by tangomurete
Hello from Silent Shadow SilentShadow 3 67 Last post May 18, 2017, 09:58:25 AM
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BPD Spouse is attending DBT, but no one's even mentioning BPD? tennysongirl 7 131 Last post May 17, 2017, 04:24:39 PM
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It's so hard to be intimate with him when he makes me feel like crap « 1 2  All » Happy outside 12 271 Last post May 17, 2017, 03:25:22 PM
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Help, can't stop love bpd wife but I'm not well anymore! Love4ever 2 56 Last post May 17, 2017, 03:06:33 PM
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Second introduction... uBPD husband and trying to change things MsFixer 0 20 Last post May 17, 2017, 01:21:04 PM
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How do you fight off becoming resentful « 1 2 3 4  All » Hmcbart 34 389 Last post May 17, 2017, 12:26:58 PM
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Living with BPD while they are going through DBT - What is that like?? Ox 3 43 Last post May 17, 2017, 11:47:53 AM
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Just joined MrWonka1965 1 33 Last post May 17, 2017, 07:18:58 AM
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I flew into an unprovoked rage at him last night. Worried about my sanity now. OnceHadMoxie 4 78 Last post May 17, 2017, 05:56:47 AM
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3SAW Intro First Posting 3saw 1 18 Last post May 16, 2017, 11:46:33 PM
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Change in living arrangements littleox 0 23 Last post May 16, 2017, 09:17:11 PM
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Wanted to write something positive Hulu 2 37 Last post May 16, 2017, 04:08:29 PM
by MovingOn23
Me Diagnosed Major Depressive With a BPD Spouse HELP Rirdlant 1 43 Last post May 16, 2017, 01:50:49 PM
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New UK member Roma 3 38 Last post May 16, 2017, 01:07:21 PM
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Great article about grieving the person he/she used to be OnceHadMoxie 4 117 Last post May 16, 2017, 11:31:06 AM
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