all new to me

[Havehope]

new here looking for advice on how to proceed after reading the book Stop caretaking the Border Line or Narcissist by Margalis Fjelstad, excellent book.

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[Kwamina]

Hi Havehope

It seems your post fell between the cracks. That is very unfortunate, here is a belated welcome to bpdfamily

BPD is quite a challenging disorder and it can greatly help to educate ourselves about it. That's why I'm glad you read that book and have also come here for advice.

Could you perhaps tell us some more about your specific situation? What are the biggest challenges you are currently dealing with?