I guess this was so predictable.
I'm sorry that you had to go through the hateful wringer again. As
Infern0 says, the rage attacks are standard.
When I didn't respond to one of her texts she would come back at me and rage even harder. There was no reasoning with her at all that some of what had happened between us was caused by her. This is obviously an abhorrent thought to her.
Do you see why not engaging is useful? It sounds like you are aware that responding in
any way to a deregulation will only lead to further outbursts. Your response made her more angry and it also made you take some responsibility for those accusations. It also reinforces the behavior - that testing the boundaries and raging is a way to get a response from you.
I am still waiting for her to give me some personal things that are mine. When that is done I will block her as this abuse is her just lashing out and blaming me for everything that is wrong in her world.
Are those personal items irreplaceable?