It’s so easy with BPD partners to get into Fear Obligation and Guilt (FOG).
https://bpdfamily.com/content/emotional-blackmail-fear-obligation-and-guilt-fogThese are very difficult relationships and not to be entered into without a lot of thought, since as they progress, often they get even more difficult, especially when children are involved.
People with BPD can be very enticing partners at the beginning, because they are trying so hard to win our affection. Unfortunately this phase doesn’t seem to last very long.