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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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« Reply #30 on: August 23, 2010, 11:24:58 AM »
 Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)   You're in good company friend... Thats all any of us can do and that's why this board is such a lifeline for so many of us needing to still put the dots together and find ourselves again and get back to basics...

like breathing again...     good work friend... love 1bg
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« Reply #31 on: August 23, 2010, 04:34:57 PM »
Wow, I've been thinking of this thread a lot today... .ve01603, sorry it got hijacked as it took an avenue away from your OP.

Sorry to hear you're involved with this problem. You may never know for sure unless he tells you... .at this point though it doesn't really matter, IMO. Sounds like you're going in the right direction... .away. I wish you the best! Smiling (click to insert in post)

I was very angry this morning after reading some comments in this thread, but I see it has been addressed.

I don't want to add to this other than to repeat my point above. It really doesn't matter what caused our partners or ex's BPD problem... .the facts of the matter are we need to recognize why we stayed in these situations for as long as we did and never do that again.

Simple, right? Smiling (click to insert in post) Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Take care ve01603, and everybody!

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« Reply #32 on: August 24, 2010, 02:01:06 AM »
I just found and read this entire thread and if it's any consolation... .it has helped me in tremendous ways! I am so appreciative of it's existence.
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« Reply #33 on: August 24, 2010, 06:21:21 AM »
Dear RRH:

I'm glad to hear that.  I'm going to need everyone's support as I attempt to go NC again starting today.  He tried to contact me last week and he went away over the weekend.  I think that when I don't contact him, he may try to contact me.  Who knows?

Hope that I can be strong.
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« Reply #34 on: August 24, 2010, 06:12:34 PM »
Quote from: ve01603 on August 24, 2010, 06:21:21 AM
Dear RRH:

I'm glad to hear that.  I'm going to need everyone's support as I attempt to go NC again starting today.  He tried to contact me last week and he went away over the weekend.  I think that when I don't contact him, he may try to contact me.  Who knows?

Hope that I can be strong.

Dorothy, you're on your way back to Kansas without The Flying Monkey in The Oz, ok?
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« Reply #35 on: August 24, 2010, 08:55:52 PM »
Quote from: RealEyes on August 24, 2010, 06:12:34 PM
Quote from: ve01603 on August 24, 2010, 06:21:21 AM
Dear RRH:

I'm glad to hear that.  I'm going to need everyone's support as I attempt to go NC again starting today.  He tried to contact me last week and he went away over the weekend.  I think that when I don't contact him, he may try to contact me.  Who knows?

Hope that I can be strong.

Dorothy, you're on your way back to Kansas without The Flying Monkey in The Oz, ok?

O.K.
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