Not sure if this is the correct board to post this from, but here goes.
Ive been doing a lot of thinking... . thats amazing I know
MMMM... . how can I put this?
I understand BPD as my daughter 17 suffers from this disorder.
What is bugging me is that alot of people seem to ditch their SO by saying
their ex partners have PDs,
Some of these people might not have a mental illness per se, but just be a
little on the eccentric, kooky side?
The reason Im posting this, is not to undermine the stressful behaviours
that BPD sufferers have and the effects it has on their partners.
Abuse should not be tolerated in any form from anyone.
Sometimes it seems that people can put every little qwuirkyness into one bag.
and label it as BPD?
Example: Personally, i have always been a bit eccentric, say nutty things etc,
my ex used to find me endearing
, but i never raged or was abusive.
He apparently left me, convinced i am BPD?
NOw if that were true, why didnt he explain his reasons for leaving me?
Oh, Im not explaining it very well on here.
Please, if you can work out what im saying on here?
please excuse the grammar
