How are things now?
Do you have a plan?
Yeah, I know that, too, my exBPDbf once brokeup with me then he said that it was really hard for him, that he was avoiding me because he needed space to heal, that he was protecting me agaisnt him and was sorry, several minutes after that he invited all of our coworkers to his house in his country to have fun - he also wrote me telling me: "hey, why don´t you come, too?

" It´s the BPD thing, I guess... . you are painted black and they dettached, I guess! :'(