Playful Hitting

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Has anybody else had this? I sit common for someone with BPD to do this or was it just a bit of fun?

Reason I ask is because slapped me a couple of times and laughed, but it was actually pretty hard and she would also constantly nip me hard and pull the hair on my hands and legs,even bit me hard a couple of times. I sort of laughed it off as fun,but it really was not thinking about it.

[jj2121]

Has anybody else had this? I sit common for someone with BPD to do this or was it just a bit of fun?

Reason I ask is because slapped me a couple of times and laughed, but it was actually pretty hard and she would also constantly nip me hard and pull the hair on my hands and legs,even bit me hard a couple of times. I sort of laughed it off as fun,but it really was not thinking about it.

[jj2121]

is it common I meant

[Somewhere]

I would hope not.

This stuff can get WAAYYY out of hand in crazy land.

[Wendell]

I don't know if it's typical of the disorder but my uexNPDh used to wrestle with me very roughly, claiming he was just playing around.  He actually was a wrestler in high school so it gave him a little bit of an unfair advantage.  It would get so rough I would actually have bruises, all the while he was laughing.  He would tickle me this way also and slap my back end hard, when I would say that it was hurting he'd tell me I was too sensitive and over-reacting.  I look back now and see it was just another way he took his pent up anger out on me and probably a control tactic as well.  

[jj2121]

I would hope not.

This stuff can get WAAYYY out of hand in crazy land.

to be fair the biting was in bed which was fair enough. The rest happened often

[badromance]

Yes, mine would slug me pretty good when we were in the car and she was driving. It started as playful and then she would hit harder, when I wasn't expecting and torment me because she felt I had smarted off. She would justify is as her just expressing her playfulness... . well she didn't play that way with anyone else.