Most of you on this board know my story, so will not repeat it and tire you readers
A few thoughts doing the rounds for sometime;
During the final days with him, he gave a cold sholder and at times gave me 'wordly knowledge' of i should fix 'my problems' - I need to be '
Practical' in life. He said '
Life is not fair' and i should get used to it. He said this when i told him it is unfair that he wouldn't give me another chance while i gave him several.
I am 'irrational' in love i guess. I do not calculate the 'give-take' part and do everything to keep 'us' happy.
He witnessed that I have been going through a financial crunch as i spend all my money to visit thousands of miles away once every 2-3 months to meet him. I feel like he saw what a 'mess' i was in and was no longer appealing to him.
I feel like i was 'worthless' or 'invaluable' to him. He is now married to a girl from a well to do family, highly qualified woman at a very good position and earning good money - suiting his status and family culture.
What i fail to understand is that he met my family and wanted to marry me. Why suddenly did he analyse my worth (if he did)?
I feel like ' I was not good enough for him'. May be i am a BIG mess.
Struggling to fight this feeling for months.