When you figure that out let us all know... .
BPD is a complicated disease not many unless hit rock bottom seek treatment. I have been married
16 years in feburary and i have known just as long he had a personality disorder
he is high functioning and still is undiagnosed.
HE use to rage three times a week so like all week then it did go down to once a week then every four months. now far and few in between. but that was all do to me changing things and he just followed. i didn't worry about him as much and i did what was needed to change me.
i went to theropy to learn the skills and tools for one year he went one year to a differnt theropy to learn to control his anger it was through his therapist that told me i needed to learn those skills and tools. of coarse i am like what? My husband holds a job and is real money aware, the therapist told me it was good he is a recovered alcoholic.
TO this day i deal with alot of BPD traits like recently the insecurity of going back to work and working nights he is up and down, but better then where he was for 14 years just needs to get through this. good luck .
oh There are times now my husband is in the black i have to bring positive things he is talking about that are negitive in to light... . THen he is in the black not as long about a thing or person... and as always
