Its for the best we will get there. The hardest thing for me is although I'm not perfect i take ownership of my issues and work on them. I would like to think I'm a really good man and I was very good to her but i got no appreciation, no empathy, no genuine thank you apart from a half assed letter from her 3 months ago which honestly was more about herself... . I know its the illness but it still really hurts accepting that isn't easy. She looks like she is having the time of her life but i know thats not the reality. Every picture she posts is screaming for attention or validation especially of guys in my opinion. its such a shame one good man wasn't good enough for her
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That is one of the cruel ironies dealing with this illness... . They leave you with no closure, they leave you with all the pain that they do not wish to deal with, they leave you by yourself in the relationship, and whether they leave you for someone else or not... . they leave nonetheless. My exUBPDgf towards the end was posting similar pics as you describe. All for attention. It is part of the behavior. In my case, she is surrounded by enabling friends(especially men) who are only all to happy to provide the attention they so crave. I closed both my facebook and instagram to protect myself from further exposure to things that would only hurt me. After she left me for the 2nd time, i will never return to either social network. I am still reeling from the pain. I still tumble.
