has anyone had a recycle after something like this?

[papawapa]

My udBPDexgf and I split up a little over three months ago. We have two kids. We had numerous break ups over the thirteen years we were together. All except for this last time I was the one that left. I made her take her things and leave.

She left and moved in with her daughter's ex boyfriend and has been living with him since. She has has three major fights with him and her relationship with him is rocky to say the least.

For the first six weeks she refused to talk to me. We have been talking regularly since. Last week I got her to open up about what she is angry and resentful about.  Her biggest sticking point is that I filed for custody of the kids and was awarded temporary full custody. She says she never would have taken the kids from me like I did to her. I didnt see any other option as she was threatening to take the kids to sspend weekends with her at his house.

She says she cannot forgive me for what I have done. Is there any chance that when things go sour with the replacement she will come back to me? I am struggling with letting go and moving on as I have myself convinced that eventually she will come back to her family... .

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