Not supplying food/meds?

[kelkay]

He has been trying to control me, and he actually has. Today, he made demands that he has made every other time he does this, which is for me to clean the house. ITS CLEAN.  He told me he is cutting me off, he will not provide food/meds.  What is wrong with him?  Im an insulin dependent diabetic! He raged at me today and thats the only thing Im worried about, my food and meds. He also said he is not paying to have my car fixed, which has been in four times for repair but they keep sending it back as repaired, only its not.  Is he trying to kill me?  He is still paying the bills here, he has not been staying here as he is in one of his evil, raging cycles. I was not fighting with him, he was yelling at me, and I didnt say a word because its pointless. If I did, he would argue back with me, so I just dont say anything. I tried, but of course that was a brick wall and I didnt try anymore.

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[elemental]

Kellykaye, your meds are needed for your health to be stable. He sounds like he has a deep and wide streak of narcissism. Narcs can be coldly cruel.

Are you going to take care of yourself here in terms of making sure you have a supply of meds and decent food? Don't depend on someone who is playing these kinds of power games. Is your family local? Any friends? Would you consider calling the local domestic crisis center? If you can't afford meds and food, the county may be able to assist you on those and the crisis centers usually have awesome counselors.

Remember what is said here on the site about self care! I want to support you in being proactive on these important things for yourself.     You have a right to your meds and to food.   

[kelkay]

He is NPD and BPD, both have similar traits. My family is an hour from me.  I will be ok one way or another. He threatened this before.