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« on: January 10, 2014, 02:38:36 PM »
Well... . I just learned today that one of the guys my stbxwife had been dating for a month dumped her 2 weeks ago. (She was dating two guys at once) So... . she reported him to the dating site they both used to meetup as "not who he says he is, that he's married and preys on women for one night stands."

All absolutely untrue information about the guy. So if the stbxwife is trying to be vindictive over some guy she slept with for a month... . that, my friends, is just further proof that I don't need this woman in my life any more.  No thanks. I'm better off alone than having to deal with any of that any more.  I'm terrified what she makes up about me.  Simply terrified.

I bet his rejection of her, because she got really invested in him (he was her favorite of the two she was dating), must have really set off her abandonment fears right?

I'm counting my blessings that I am untangling from this horrid mess.
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« Reply #1 on: January 10, 2014, 02:42:28 PM »
How are you finding all this information out?
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« Reply #2 on: January 10, 2014, 02:44:03 PM »
Quote from: Eric1 on January 10, 2014, 02:42:28 PM
How are you finding all this information out?

Would rather not say but I have no doubts about it that's for sure.
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« Reply #3 on: January 10, 2014, 02:49:10 PM »
Are you logging into her accounts? I'm not judging, but for the sake of your sanity, it would probably be easier to not know what's going on. It doesn't benifit you. It would torture me.
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« Reply #4 on: January 10, 2014, 03:04:47 PM »
Quote from: SeekingAdviceinCa on January 10, 2014, 02:38:36 PM
... . that, my friends, is just further proof that I don't need this woman in my life any more.  No thanks.

I'm counting my blessings that I am untangling from this horrid mess.

Smiling (click to insert in post) Hi, Seek. Glad to see you're a lot more resolute about this than a few weeks ago. It's a process, that's for sure. Stay strong, brother!  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #5 on: January 10, 2014, 03:09:45 PM »
Quote from: SeekingAdviceinCa on January 10, 2014, 02:38:36 PM
Well... . I just learned today that one of the guys my stbxwife had been dating for a month dumped her 2 weeks ago.

Smart guy. He probably avoided a hell of a train wreck.
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« Reply #6 on: January 10, 2014, 03:48:59 PM »
Quote from: free'n'clear on January 10, 2014, 03:04:47 PM
Smiling (click to insert in post) Hi, Seek. Glad to see you're a lot more resolute about this than a few weeks ago. It's a process, that's for sure. Stay strong, brother!  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

Thanks  free n clear!  Yeah I'm definitely more resolute. I had a set back earlier this morning. But I'm doing better now after hearing about the above. It's not easy that's for sure.
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« Reply #7 on: January 10, 2014, 03:57:01 PM »
Quote from: SeekingAdviceinCa on January 10, 2014, 03:48:59 PM
It's not easy that's for sure.

   A former Aussie Prime Minister once famously said "Life wasn't meant to be easy". It didn't do him any favours, but I think he was right. What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
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« Reply #8 on: January 10, 2014, 03:58:40 PM »
Quote from: free'n'clear on January 10, 2014, 03:57:01 PM
Quote from: SeekingAdviceinCa on January 10, 2014, 03:48:59 PM
It's not easy that's for sure.

   A former Aussie Prime Minister once famously said "Life wasn't meant to be easy". It didn't do him any favours, but I think he was right. What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.

So true. So true.

I think we've all been tested. Now we just have to see if we can pass the test.
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« Reply #9 on: January 12, 2014, 01:30:13 AM »
 and yes the Australian prime minister who made that statement was also a raging narcissist look at his history he wasn't a very nice man at all . But what he did say is very relevant to life
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« Reply #10 on: January 12, 2014, 01:31:27 AM »
dude however you are getting your info , is not our concern but I will say this all it is doing is making you sad and hurt. Move forward and let it go ,cheers
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« Reply #11 on: January 12, 2014, 01:40:45 AM »
My approach to this is "Ignorance is bliss". I have no idea whether she's been dating or not since our split. I think it would be harder to know that not to know. Why put yourself through all that if you don't have to?

I'm sure it would upset me to hear any details. I'd rather not know.

Keep your chin up, Seeking. This woman will make your life a living hell if you let her. You've got to focus on you and not her.
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« Reply #12 on: January 12, 2014, 01:58:36 AM »
Quote from: partyhat on January 12, 2014, 01:30:13 AM
what he did say is very relevant to life

   I wasn't endorsing him or his party, partyhat. The current PM isn't the nicest guy on the planet either!
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« Reply #13 on: January 12, 2014, 02:21:06 AM »
Quote from: free'n'clear on January 12, 2014, 01:58:36 AM
Quote from: partyhat on January 12, 2014, 01:30:13 AM
what he did say is very relevant to life

   I wasn't endorsing him or his party, partyhat. The current PM isn't the nicest guy on the planet either!

When did George W. take over Australia? Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #14 on: January 12, 2014, 02:24:58 AM »
Quote from: arn131arn on January 12, 2014, 02:21:06 AM
When did George W. take over Australia?   Smiling (click to insert in post) 

  He didn't have to. He had Little Johnny Howard on a leash!  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #15 on: January 12, 2014, 04:01:08 PM »
George w doesnt need to take over this country they already have we are just puppets to the military industrial complex same as the US. We are all  slaves to powers that be that lurk in the background.  NINE ELEVEN a terrorist attack I dont think so ! Inside job. Quite sad. Any way beside the point  dude let her go and focus on you and get well
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