It's been almost a year since I stood up for myself and walked away from a bad "relationship". In the months to follow, I was glued to this board. There were attempts to reach out to me that I ignored. There was a time when I almost considered stepping back into the ring for another round. Luckily, I held firm in my resolve to stay away. I'd like to thank all the posters during that time. While I contributed somewhat, I was able to receive the support I needed by reading other people's posts and experiences. I learned so much by paying attention to others. I am so grateful.
I am happy to report that my life has resumed. I am truly happier now. It's so nice to be on level ground again. No more push/pull. I still see her from time to time at work but I'm so removed from the interaction, I no longer feel emotions toward her (no hate, no love). Her power over me, the power I gave her, is completely gone.
For all the new people, please keep your eyes on the horizon. Life has ups and downs. You may be feeling "down" right now but as time progresses and you take the steps you need toward your future, you will find yourself walking out of the current "down" and into the next "up". Life is change and ups and downs will always come our way. But keep your chin up and keep walking. The next chapter of your life isn't that far ahead and you're in control of the pace and direction.
