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« on: February 04, 2014, 05:33:35 PM »

I've been reading up on bullying. I feel that it's linked to domestic abuse.

Does anyone have good recommendations for books on bullying and how to deal with it?

Thanks!
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« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2014, 12:34:14 AM »

China Boy, a novel by Gus Lee, taught me more about how to deal with bullying than any other source.

Wish I knew it as a kid.
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« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2014, 09:42:49 PM »

I don't think bullying is 'linked to abuse'.

IT IS ABUSE IN ITSELF!

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« Reply #3 on: February 09, 2014, 08:18:41 AM »

I don't think bullying is 'linked to abuse'.

IT IS ABUSE IN ITSELF!

End of!

Yes, I know that Moonie75.

Domestic abuse is a specific type of bullying/abuse that occurs in a romantic relationship whereby one party systematically abuses the other party.

However, there are other types of bullying/abuse such as workplace bullying, bullying in schools etc.

I would like books dealing with all types of bullying (including domestic abuse) and tips on how to deal with it.

So if you have a book/article recommendation, please let me know.

Thanks for the book recommendation Pilgrim-appreciate it!
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« Reply #4 on: February 09, 2014, 06:59:30 PM »

Boundaries

By Henry Cloud PhD, John Townsend PhD




Book Description

Many people have drawn overly flexible boundaries (unwilling to say no, always accommodating others' needs) or overly rigid boundaries (to the point of being righteous and judgmental). Psychologists and inspirational speakers Cloud and Townsend show readers how to set reasonable boundaries in order to follow the true path of Christianity.

This book has become immensely popular, most likely because it makes personal boundaries easier to define and is filled with spiritual purpose. Some cautions: the format can be overly self-helpish for such a complex discussion and the authors at one point imply that judicious spankings may be an acceptable form of setting boundaries with children.

Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us, mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts, emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions.


About the Author

John Cloud is a clinical psychologist with a unique ability to connect with his audiences. He is a graduate of Southern Methodist University, having earned a BS in psychology with honors. He completed his PhD in clinical psychology at Biola University and his clinical internship at Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health. His philanthropic interests lie in the area of homelessness and the inner city, as well as Third World missions and development. He serves on the board of the Los Angeles Mission, a rescue mission on Skid Row in downtown Los Angeles.

Cloud has written or co-written nineteen books, including the million-seller Boundaries. In his consulting practice, he works with leaders of organizations and corporations, from family-held firms to Fortune 25 companies and non-profit organizations.

John Townsend is a clinical psychologist and marriage and family therapist.  Born and raised in North Carolina, Dr. Townsend earned his BA in psychology at North Carolina State University, graduating with honors. He went on to obtain his Master of Theology degree from Dallas Theological Seminary, again with honors, and then his Masters and PhD in clinical psychology from Biola University in California.

A prolific writer, he has authored or co-authored eighteen books, and has sold over four million copies.


# Paperback: 304 pages

# Publisher: Zondervan; Rev Ed edition (April 1, 2002)

# Language: English

# ISBN-10: 0310247454

~$11 US


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« Reply #5 on: February 10, 2014, 05:08:03 PM »

Boundaries

By Henry Cloud PhD, John Townsend PhD


John Cloud is a clinical psychologist


Kind of messed me up there for a minute, until I realized Henry Cloud was the first author... . thanks for the recommendation. I'll give it a try... . once I get off my fiction kick as of late.
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« Reply #6 on: February 10, 2014, 09:05:05 PM »

Oh shoot I didnt even see that!  Yeah two authors.

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« Reply #7 on: February 11, 2014, 05:18:50 PM »

Thanks for the book recommendation Green Mango Smiling (click to insert in post)
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