Moved a lot?

[suffering_parent]

Any one else forced to move around a lot with their BPD partner?

My exwife moved like 40+ times with her dysfunctional parents.   Our first 5 years of marriage she was antsy, but couldn't move due to owning a house.   After we sold that house it was on.   Bought another house, but she made me buy a second just to move out of that town.   After we started renting we would move at least every 6 months.   For whatever reason she would have to move.   We were doing this with four kids for about 4 years.   Of course she didn't help at all with any of the moves.   I had to clean up the rentals and move everything.

I had enough and bought another house and said I am not moving again.   Within 6 months she was gone and divorced.

It is completely insane and was such an unstable environment for the kids.   Having them changing schools all the time was a nightmare.   It is going to take a lot to ever convince me to move again!   I am still having nightmares.