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So I realized today That I am a captn save a ho. I like taking the role of saving and protecting things I guess it gives me meaning in life. So, borderline waifs have been the kinds of girls I almost always end up with.
I realize I need to change myself There must be something wrong with me to endure such hardships. I need to save myself now.
are there any sections or leads pertaining on healing myself?
I accept that I must have my own mental illness to have been so destroyed by a pwBPDso. If There wasn't something off within me I certainly would have run for the hills.
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Hi Blimblam
I found looking through the personal inventory board a good resource for self discovery.
Also this link is a good one too.
Our Dysfunctional Relationships with Others
I got alot out of the karpman triangle perspective.
hope this helps.
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thank you corroline
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