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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: June 05, 2014, 06:23:10 AM »

Hey family

I have been in NC for two months now. My close friends understan that she is disordered as they have witnessed some of the crazy makings while i was with her. My friends now know that i am more comfortable talking or hearing anything about her. My exBPD is into poetry and now since i have known her dynamics well i recall a lot of contradicting and double meaning poetry as if more than one person have written the piece.

So last night my friend informed me that her status on whatsapp was a verse of her poetry where the translation is i am like the sea i drown and get rescued all by myself.


I really loled. She is trying to convince herself now that she can be independent. Unfortunately i am leaving for good to another country in a week. I will miss the show or the pattern that would be hilarious to watch. But i have been told many stories and patterns during the idealization phase so thats fair enough i guess. I am really amazed by their denial and impulseveness  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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Picking myself off the canvas for the last time!


« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2014, 06:31:54 AM »

Glad to see that your coming around AJ THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE! Good luck on your trip .
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The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all. (Psalm 34:18, 19)
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« Reply #2 on: June 05, 2014, 06:32:16 AM »

Hey AJ good for you moving on with your life. You have managed to detach from this sticky web of destruction. Well done on NC. You have come a long way since your earlier posts Smiling (click to insert in post)

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« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2014, 07:09:08 AM »

Thanks mwc and narellan for your replies


Yes i get better days now. The more you understand BPD the more it is easy to let go. The moment you realize and acknowledge that you are dealing with a disorder and not a person with rational thoughts and feelings is the moment you will be set free. One more positive step is that my therapist ended the sessions. He told me that i do not need him anymore and that i am doing good.

I will try to sound sincere and not rude when i say this. My heart with all you here who have been for long with their pwBPD. I am glad that i was out shortly. I hope the peace and hope to be with you all
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« Reply #4 on: June 05, 2014, 10:13:28 AM »

I'm glad you're moving on and I hope your new life is exciting and fruitful!  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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