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« Reply #30 on: July 11, 2014, 07:43:12 PM »
*You don't make smart decisions

*You don't back me up

*You're a slut

*The world would be a better place if your family all jumped off a bridge and died
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« Reply #31 on: July 13, 2014, 10:00:50 PM »
"only if you want to.  I don't want you to feel obligated" - when she invites me somewhere, and she senses I have created boundaries and trying to limit time I spend with her

"I don't think you like me.  You are only doing these things because you don't want to see other's suffer" - after I do major favors for her

"You're going to leave me.  Everyone does"

"you don't understand" - common
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« Reply #32 on: July 13, 2014, 10:43:02 PM »
One of my SO's uBPDex's favorites is "You can't be mad at me"

(Wanna bet  )
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« Reply #33 on: July 14, 2014, 12:42:51 AM »
Another one from my uBPD sibling, "obviously you... ." that usually leads into a tirade of what she perceives as me doing something wrong, not right enough, not fast enough, not whatever... .
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« Reply #34 on: July 15, 2014, 01:00:08 PM »
Quote from: Panda39 on July 13, 2014, 10:43:02 PM
One of my SO's uBPDex's favorites is "You can't be mad at me"

(Wanna bet  )

Mine "I know what you are thinking... ."

If you did, you wouldn't be my X
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« Reply #35 on: July 15, 2014, 02:25:46 PM »
Quote from: Forestaken on July 15, 2014, 01:00:08 PM
Quote from: Panda39 on July 13, 2014, 10:43:02 PM
One of my SO's uBPDex's favorites is "You can't be mad at me"

(Wanna bet  )

Mine "I know what you are thinking... ."

If you did, you wouldn't be my X

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« Reply #36 on: July 15, 2014, 03:17:48 PM »
You won't survie a minute in my head.

You don't know what is it to feel uncomfortable in your skin.

I have always doubts.
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« Reply #37 on: July 16, 2014, 02:08:24 PM »
Quote from: wishfulthinking on July 09, 2014, 02:11:28 PM
I get the "why don't you ever show any emotion?"

I have been most recently compared to ":)exter" - emotionless... .go figure!

I'll also add another to the list:

"You always listen to everyone else except me"
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« Reply #38 on: July 17, 2014, 03:52:01 AM »
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