Communication

[Chasing_Ghosts]

So me and my ex started having more contact lately. Im wondering if its ok for me to be the one to initiate? She usually does. So should i keep it that way to not look desperate or make her feel engulfed? Im just confused on how im supposed to handle this situation... *sigh*

[Infern0]

In your case buddy I'd Excercise caution.

If she is in regular contact then let her keep initiating.

If you need to initiate,  do it in a very innocuous manner,  "hey how are you" or something.  Excercise a lot of caution.

It seems like she's painting you white so I'd let her keep doing that. Generally when they want to talk to you they will.

[Aussie0zborn]

Generally when they need you because nobody else is available, they will talk to you.

Why do you need this?

[Blimblam]

Generally when they keep in touch with you after the discard it is to know they still maintain control over you should they have a need to be attended to by you

[Chasing_Ghosts]

So then why does she show the interest in wanting to hang out and "talk" sometime. And is sharing a bunch of personal details with me...

Is she just trying to make me feel safe and let my guard down?

And now i havent heard from her again since saturday night...

Push/pull?

Ive havent really tried initiating yet...

Is it likely ill just get ignored?