six months later...

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

It's been six months now... six months since my BPD ex girlfriend disappeared with our baby. Six months and not one word from her. I've been thru therapy and I do most days feel better. She is still to my knowledge driving by my house which is miles out of her way. When she vanished she had no money or job. All this is so confusing to me. I'm so angry I want to explode with rage at her and tell her what kind of p.o.s she really is. How can I stop this?

[hurting300]

It's been six months now... six months since my BPD ex girlfriend disappeared with our baby. Six months and not one word from her. I've been thru therapy and I do most days feel better. She is still to my knowledge driving by my house which is miles out of her way. When she vanished she had no money or job. All this is so confusing to me. I'm so angry I want to explode with rage at her and tell her what kind of p.o.s she really is. How can I stop this?

[Recooperating]

Im so sorry to hear this hurting! Can you take any legal action against her for taking your baby from you? I cant imagine what you're going through. Its already hard enough to deal with the ending of a rs, but not knowing about your baby... .So sorry!

[hurting300]

Yes I have great attorneys, but we can't find her. Why can't she just let me see our baby and tell me it's over. Why disappear after a great day with each other? She text me all day and all the while she was moving out of my house.

[Lion Fire]

Sorry man, this is an awful story.

Tough going I can only imagine.

Hang in and see it all through.

Peace

[hurting300]

I try. But honestly my temper is boiling over more and more.

[Recooperating]

Thats so awefull! Did you go to the police and report her for kidnapping? Maybe they can find her through her social security number? Does she receive unemployment or some kind of child support from governement? Can they track her with that? (Dont know if it works like that in your country ofcourse) sorry if Im saying stupid things you probably thought of already... .Im just really flabbergasted that a woman can do that to the father of her child and most of all, hurt the child for her own ___ed up benefit!

As a woman I cant understand these type of things! Please know we're not all like this! Your anger is understandable! Man who wouldnt go ballistic?

Best of luck to you hurting! Feeling for you! 

[hurting300]

Thats so awefull! Did you go to the police and report her for kidnapping? Maybe they can find her through her social security number? Does she receive unemployment or some kind of child support from governement? Can they track her with that? (Dont know if it works like that in your country ofcourse) sorry if Im saying stupid things you probably thought of already... .Im just really flabbergasted that a woman can do that to the father of her child and most of all, hurt the child for her own ___ed up benefit!

As a woman I cant understand these type of things! Please know we're not all like this! Your anger is understandable! Man who wouldnt go ballistic?

Best of luck to you hurting! Feeling for you! 

she has never work long enough to get employment checks. And yes we have ran her s.s. number a lot and nothing. She's lived in 9 different cities and changed her name once. She is highly secretive. She won't be found until she wants to be.