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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« Reply #30 on: October 28, 2014, 05:53:11 PM »

Following this as I still struggle with resentment toward my replacement even though I know she's playing us off each other
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« Reply #31 on: October 28, 2014, 06:11:47 PM »

Following this as I still struggle with resentment toward my replacement even though I know she's playing us off each other

Walk away brother. Let them have each other...
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« Reply #32 on: October 28, 2014, 08:09:33 PM »

I'm doing my best.

The hardest is feeling like he doesn't care. It's his way of survival, I suppose. But it doesn't make it right.

It's been a week and my feelings are still reeling. Everyday for two years. We went through so much together, survived so much. I was still fighting. He gave up and gave in.

Dating websites, Craigslist, This other woman ... .I didn't deserve any of that.
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« Reply #33 on: October 28, 2014, 09:01:37 PM »

I'm doing my best.

The hardest is feeling like he doesn't care. It's his way of survival, I suppose. But it doesn't make it right.

It's been a week and my feelings are still reeling. Everyday for two years. We went through so much together, survived so much. I was still fighting. He gave up and gave in.

Dating websites, Craigslist, This other woman ... .I didn't deserve any of that.

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It's going to be ok. We gave all. They didn't. Nothing we can can do about it. In May case, I'm dumped and in therapy, she's googoo eyes with another dude. I love her, yet I hate her. I will never take her back... never.
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« Reply #34 on: October 28, 2014, 09:02:50 PM »

I wonder if they ever come back?

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« Reply #35 on: October 28, 2014, 09:18:30 PM »

I wonder if they ever come back?


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Is that what you want? More pain? I pray everyday for a do over, but I cant. Don't worry if they do or not. Just take care of yourself first. If you read the posts, you'll see that some do and some don't. It's your choice to do so, but I personally am done. I couldn't stand more pain like this. I'm worth more.
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