My elder brother has BPD

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My elder brother has BPD. He is chronic aloholic. On top of that he had a relationship with my sister in law. Now my mom is not accepting my wife.im not going to my parents apartment any more. Cuase my brother is staying with my parents. My parents are allowing him to do whatever he want. Im exasparated. I love my parents. But now i dont khow what to do.

[Anando440]

My elder brother has BPD. He is chronic aloholic. On top of that he had a relationship with my sister in law. Now my mom is not accepting my wife.im not going to my parents apartment any more. Cuase my brother is staying with my parents. My parents are allowing him to do whatever he want. Im exasparated. I love my parents. But now i dont khow what to do.

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  Anando440,

I am so sorry that you are in a situation where you feel that you cannot visit your parents because of your brother's actions. I see that you state that your parents are letting your brother do whatever he wants. What does this look like? Can you spend time with your parents elsewhere, say the park or a restaurant? What are you doing for yourself to deal with this situation?

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Peace and blessings.