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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: December 26, 2014, 07:58:25 AM »

On Christmas Eve A friend of mine called me to wish me a Merry Christmas, I have not spoken to this guy in about a year and a half because of my ex GF and her isolating nature, she was paranoid he was going to destroy our relationship, I know she thought that because he called me once and told me she was being a little too friendly with somebody. And it turns out he was right at that time, but during my relationship with my ex he and I stopped talking because of my relationship.  I'm sure he found out her and I are no longer together and give me a call and it was very nice to hear from him again,  my ex GF on the other hand Did send me her " all about me " Christmas card which basically is A card of a collage of photos of her along with one of her and her children, there was no note and she did not even sign the card, I Centre nothing and gave this no response. A month ago she told me she believes she found somebody who will love her which I know is just part of a manipulation game even if she did find somebody but I told her that we should no longer communicate to give her no choice a chance because I know how damaging it was to me in this relationship when she did that to me and then wdbt NC, and I have remained NC since, I did notice she is already back on her dating site so I guess so much for the love that she had found?  She did email me Christmas Day and said.  " Merry Christmas:) " she always had to add the smiley face to everything when trying to taunt me but I guess the message was not long enough for the typical exaggerated punctuation to be added as well?... .  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Anyways All she got back was NC.   For myself I actually hate doing NC because it seems wrong and cruel but then again Lying and cheating is even worse and I could not get that through her thick head.
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