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Divine1

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Introduction

« on: December 12, 2014, 03:43:36 PM »

Hello, I was directed to this website by my therapist. I am recently (2weeks) out of a relationship with my live in partner. My therapist said my partner had traits of someone with BPD and said that this site may be helpful as I try to sort through things and pick up the pieces of my life. From what I have read so far, my therapist was dead on. The articles have described our relationship almost 100%. ... .now to just find a way to accept this and heal my heart and deal with me.


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Lucky Jim

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Re: Introduction

« Reply #1 on: December 13, 2014, 12:36:23 PM »

Hey Divine1, Welcome. It sounds like you have come to the right place. People really get it on this site when it comes to BPD. I have a question: you selected the Undecided Board, though it seems like your situation is more that of the Leaving Board, but maybe not? Presumably you chose this Board for a reason. Hang in there, LuckyJim


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Re: Introduction

« Reply #2 on: December 19, 2014, 05:03:37 PM »

Hi Divine1,

I would like to join Lucky Jim and welcome you. I would also like to echo Lucky Jim and say we get BPD on this site and it really helps to talk.

Can you give us a little back-story? What made your T believe your partner is BPD?


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