Unblocked me via email, but no response to 'pick up your stuff' email

[JRT]

no, that post on Saturday was not to establish a dialog. That was the email where i told her where to pick up her stuff.

You were empowered to cut ties in your way... .not sure if they provided you with a sense of empowerment over the situation. My taking that stuff to storage and leaving it there, was the only card that I had to play in this respect. It was the equivalent of blocking her on FB, or phone, text, etc. We are all different; her not picking the stuff up nor acknowledging the email negates my cutting ties.

[jhkbuzz]

her not picking the stuff up nor acknowledging the email negates my cutting ties.

That ^ is not true.  You are giving her all the power in this situation - that because "she" didn't pick up the stuff and because "she" didn't acknowledge the email all of your efforts are "negated". 

Not true, not true, not true. That is the thought that is keeping you stuck.

Take your power back.

[HappyNihilist]

her not picking the stuff up nor acknowledging the email negates my cutting ties.

That ^ is not true.  You are giving her all the power in this situation - that because "she" didn't pick up the stuff and because "she" didn't acknowledge the email all of your efforts are "negated". 

Not true, not true, not true. That is the thought that is keeping you stuck.

Take your power back.

All of this.

[JRT]

Like I said, we are all different. I am first beholden to my OWN standards. My standard guides me to do what is right according to what I have established. Those standards come BEFORE her. Like I have been saying: if i failed to do the right thing, that failure would hold power over me - not her. Guys; TRUST ME on this, I feel that you are working REALLY hard to convince me of something is not true. Remember: we are all different, your reactions and motives can be uniquely your own OR the same as everyone elses.

[JRT]

Like I said, we are all different. I am first beholden to my OWN standards. My standard guides me to do what is right according to what I have established. Those standards come BEFORE her. Like I have been saying: if i failed to do the right thing, that failure would hold power over me - not her. Guys; TRUST ME on this, While I am certain that you have my best interest in mind, I feel that you are working REALLY hard to convince me of something is not true. Remember: we are all different, your reactions and motives can be uniquely your own OR the same as everyone elses.

[jhkbuzz]

Like I said, we are all different. I am first beholden to my OWN standards. My standard guides me to do what is right according to what I have established. Those standards come BEFORE her. Like I have been saying: if i failed to do the right thing, that failure would hold power over me - not her. Guys; TRUST ME on this, While I am certain that you have my best interest in mind, I feel that you are working REALLY hard to convince me of something is not true. Remember: we are all different, your reactions and motives can be uniquely your own OR the same as everyone elses.

I guess you will let go when you are ready to let go.  All the best.