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this really hit home for me...
www.tinybuddha.com/blog/when-youve-fallen-for-someone-who-isnt-right-for-you-right-now/?utm_content=buffer7f2f9&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer
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Great article but one thing I have to mention is this idea that BPDs try to gaslight us with which is "our timing wasn't right." It's their way of finding an excuse why the relationship did not work and this article alludes to timing as well.
When it comes to the BPD, it is NEVER the right time to be with them. Remember that.
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True and this also isn't BPD specific - as we know our EXBPD's DO at some point tell us they are all in and all they want is us etc... .
but then later... .it changes... .
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