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Author Topic: FB doesn't want me to forget  (Read 599 times)
Confused76

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« on: March 12, 2015, 02:02:54 PM »

About every other month, Facebook suggests that I should be friends with one of her family members (or at least someone with the same last name).  The weird thing is, during our 18 months together, I never met any of her family (or friends,  Red flag/bad  (click to insert in post)).  I don't pretend to understand FB's connection algorithms, but can I just say, it's a little annoying.  I haven't seen her in nearly a year now, and have remained strictly NC for 10 months.  I continue to heal and move away from the pain, but this always seems to be like picking at the scab.
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2015, 02:26:50 PM »

Block function?
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« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2015, 02:35:04 PM »

Do your remain FB friends with her or any of her family and friends?
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« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2015, 02:57:45 PM »

She has been blocked since last May.  In the "People you may know" section, people with the last name as her (and typically in the same town), show up from time to time.  I don't know if they are related, but it's pretty unique Italian last name, so I can only guess.  I don't know if she is having family members check up on me, which is perhaps why they show up.  My FB is fairly private, so they wouldn't be able to see much.
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« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2015, 03:16:10 PM »

I wish I knew the algorithm that they use... .
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« Reply #5 on: March 12, 2015, 10:19:57 PM »

Try remaining friends with his family on Facebook for my daughters sake. Most of the time i just want to delete them, they cause trouble for me in life not on Facebook but there a constant reminder. I hate Facebook sometimes. Lol!
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« Reply #6 on: March 12, 2015, 10:29:43 PM »

Try remaining friends with his family on Facebook for my daughters sake. Most of the time i just want to delete them, they cause trouble for me in life not on Facebook but there a constant reminder. I hate Facebook sometimes. Lol!

Yeah... .I just had an incident today... .sigh
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« Reply #7 on: March 12, 2015, 10:37:33 PM »

Try remaining friends with his family on Facebook for my daughters sake. Most of the time i just want to delete them, they cause trouble for me in life not on Facebook but there a constant reminder. I hate Facebook sometimes. Lol!

Yeah... .I just had an incident today... .sigh

Yup its crap  "Hugs".
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