Moving On

[strongvictor]

Hello

I got involved w BPD woman. Its a 24/7 horror show. She broke up w me, and is now sending me carazy texts and emails. I have adopted the no contact approach, and Ive been doing well with it. I worry about weak moments in the future.

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[getting_better]

I understand about weak moments.  I'm separated from my BPD wife after 23 years of marriage.  I'm moving forward with divorce but sometimes feel a lack of strength and motivation to get it done.  So many years of emotional roller coaster, but yet she can be so kind, affectionate, loving, funny, etc. 

It's like I'm in mourning.  I guess we are really - mourning the loss of a best friend, partner, love, etc.

Tough times, my friend. Nobody wins when personality disorders are involved.

[waverider]

Sorry to hear you feeling under duress.

Do you hope to repair this relationship or have you fully decided to move on and are wanting to learn to cope with the Leaving aspect?