It's confusing and intimidating to realize the world, and your part in it for what it is.
However you will find that now you are aware, you will be UNABLE to go back to sleep and carry on with all of those issues keeping you down.
Right now and for a little while you are going to feel pain, anger etc etc. Feel it, it's leaving your body.
Your brain is rewiring itself to function the way it always was suppose to work. Be happy, life is going to get a whole lot better.
It's so strange. I'm more aware of my feelings and thoughts as they happen.
Like I never realised how self depreciating I am in groups of people.
I enter into a room full of people and I want to head for the corner. My first automatic thoughts are... .
no one wants to see me here. I'm so awkward. They'd be better off if I wasn't aroundIt's so incredibly strange. I'm not sure where this horrible reflex reaction comes from.
I'm generally semi likeable and the more time I spend in any given situation, the more at ease I feel.
I think maybe I'm just used to living in my mother's shadow, so now that I'm a grownup, and have my own identity (somewhat) I'm lost.
I don't know how to be me. I literally have to remind myself that I'm a separate person and don't have to perform to my mom's satisfaction.
I mean... .At the end of the day, I feel confident in my personality, but parties? I revert to a different part of me. The overly critical and paranoid me.
I've begun to observe these thoughts and realize I close up like a turtle the moment I don't get a perfect reaction from others assuming the worst.