Week 2 of N.C

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

So it's week two of the N/C. I went to a psychic yesterday and I don't really believe in that stuff but it's always interesting. She brought up her name. Said she isn't done with you yet, you will here from her between Jan and May. So I kind of laughed and she asked why. Guys my ExwBPD will never contact me again. I can guarantee it. She is gone and I think it makes me experience easier. She simply won't be back. This is the second week of N/C and it hurts like hell but I know she will not reach out. It makes it a little easier. Still sucks, I still wonder how she is. I am sure she is with someone new that's also "the perfect guy". Life moves on... .Painfully.

[toddinrochester]

So it's week two of the N/C. I went to a psychic yesterday and I don't really believe in that stuff but it's always interesting. She brought up her name. Said she isn't done with you yet, you will here from her between Jan and May. So I kind of laughed and she asked why. Guys my ExwBPD will never contact me again. I can guarantee it. She is gone and I think it makes me experience easier. She simply won't be back. This is the second week of N/C and it hurts like hell but I know she will not reach out. It makes it a little easier. Still sucks, I still wonder how she is. I am sure she is with someone new that's also "the perfect guy". Life moves on... .Painfully.

[FannyB]

Hi Todd

There's an awful lot to get your head around, but you seem to be doing well! 

From what I've read though, the only way you can guarantee she won't be back is if you read her obituary in the local paper. If her emotional survival is best served by re-contacting you she will attempt to do so. All you can do is be mentally prepared to deal with it should it happen.


Fanny

[toddinrochester]

Thank you Fanny! I think us nons all think that maybe our story or our ExwBPD is going to be different. That we had a different connection and a breakup and she won't ever want to talk to me again. But I come here and post things and read, I read all the way back a year or so to ground me. This place has become so comforting. I have made some e-friends in dakid and Rori and I am forever thankful.